Thursday, November 20, 2014
Life is short, a moment in time
and so you must grab the moments as they come.
A life lived to the fullest
will have few regrets.
There may be a wonder about
where other paths may have led,
but I have no regrets for where I am
or what I should have been.
I stopped "shoulding" on myself a long time ago.
My biggest regret
is that my Dad died in 1989, 25 years ago,
and I never got to tell him how much I really loved him.
There was a lot of pain and misunderstanding in our relationship.
I was the estranged son,
living 3000 miles away,
fumbling about, trying to find myself.
It was not until many years after he died that I learned the lessons he was trying to teach me.
Tell the people around you that you love them.Life is short, a moment in time.
Monday, November 10, 2014
It continues to amaze me
that what you think about you talk about
and what you talk about you bring about.
For years my wife and I have had our private morning affirmation,
"Our life is rich, our life is full,
another day of potential and opportunity!"
Often we say it in jest
or between gritted teeth,
our lives have turned out to be rich
with potential and opportunity.
Last week, as I hiked in the Santa Monica mountains
looking out over the Los Angeles basin,
I realized I live in the center of peace and abundance.
Now, one can argue that L.A. is not a peaceful city -
just ask any police officer here.
And I am not discounting the tens of thousands of homeless people
that inhabit the county of Los Angeles.
I love the thought
I live in the center of peace and abundanceand I allow it to come to me, and through me.
Monday, November 3, 2014
I just set a Big Hairy Audacious Goal.
It is so "out of the ballpark"
that I can't even see how it can be achieved
but I know others have been able to accomplish it.
I have a vision of what it look like in the end,
and one thing I know
is that I can't get there by myself.
It will require character traits that I still need to develop:
But most of all, it will require
a collaborative community,
united in the vision, trusting each other,
all working together tomake the dream a reality.
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